Husband who keeps earphones at home, frustrated that can't be heard even if I talk

It is natural to use headphones and earphones when enjoying music and games.But if you have a family that is blocking your ears with headphones or earphones all day, what will you feel like?On the Yomiuri Shimbun's bulletin board site "Komachi", a woman raising a child has been posted by a child raising a child, saying her husband has been wearing earphones at home.It is said that even if you talk to your husband, you often do not hear your voice and do not have a conversation.What should I do?

I posted a two -year -old child and is now pregnant with her second child.When her husband is at home, she wears earphones except for meals, watching videos and listening to the radio.It seems that the headphones are layered on the earphones and they may be enthusiastic about online games.No matter how many times your child talks, you can't hear it, and you can finally notice it.My husband says, "Turn around and talk to you," but "Festival" says, "I can't do that when I want you to help you.Is it? "I asked Komachi.

There were various opinions such as "I'm worried about hearing loss" and "I don't want to cooperate with housework and childcare."

"Me" wrote "Change earphones?""I also have a hobby to listen to radio and music, so it's hard to say" Don't listen when you are with your family ", but it's not good to hear your child's voice.How about giving up and getting this voice to be completely heard? It's like "It's good to listen, but it's the minimum condition to be able to answer our call anytime". At home, there is noise canceling.We have an open -type earphone that is not open, and the volume is small. Please stop only double it. "

"I'm sorry, I'm also an earphone in the house."She wears earphones when she doesn't want to hear the sound of her husband's TV program on holidays and weekdays.Listening to sounds such as her husband's favorite historical drama and sports broadcast, she is frustrated, so she seems to be working in the kitchen while playing her favorite videos on a tablet terminal.While spelling such an experience, he analyzes Topi's husband as "I may want to erase something of my family."

The Ministry of Health, Labor and Welfare's health information site "E -Helsnet" calls on "headphone hearing loss (earphone hearing loss)"."Headphone hearing loss (earphone hearing loss)" is a hearing loss in which the hair cells of the inner ear, which play a role in conveying the sound, gradually broke when listening to music and the like using headphones and earphones.When listening to music with headphones or earphones, the WHO (World Health Organization), <1> lowering the volume or taking a break without listening continuously to prevent hearing loss <2> Use of headphones and earphones.Limited to less than 1 hour a day <3> Select headphones and earphones with a "noise canceling function" that reduce the surrounding noise.

"Kasai Otolaryngology Clinic" (Jiyugaoka, Tokyo) said Souka Kasai, "If you listen to rock etc. at a loud volume, you may have a" acoustic disorder "that feels tinnitus and ear pain.Even if the volume is appropriate for long -term consecutive equipment, it is unlikely that the volume is appropriate. However, due to the earphones sealed and wet, it causes otititis and ears outraism.There are quite a few things. Open -air headphones can prevent such things, and some models can pick up outside sounds. "

However, in the case of Topi's husband, she has been using earphones for a long time, but has not appeared in symptoms such as hearing loss.Rather, it is a big problem that relying on online games and communication with family is neglected.

Lighter Mia Ishiro (Mia Ishiro) published his book, "I started Net," (CCC Media House) based on my own experience that I tended to depend on the Internet.She also opened a "Net Net Digital Detox Channel" on YouTube, calling for a "section net" that reduces the frequency of use of the Internet for those who depend on the Internet and games.

Mr. Tetsushiro Ishikaku said, "I think the first step is to have the intention to improve the person. There are many consultations that" family is in trouble because of the Internet dependence. "It's very difficult to change it. So, in the case of Topi, rather than trying to change my husband somehow, my husband who buys partitions in the room and concentrates on music and games.Isn't it better to think about how to make Topi yourself easier, such as making your appearance look physically? "

When the husband is behind the partition, instead of calling out without calling out, when the wife can see, when introducing partitions, such as removing the earphones or headphones, the couple talk with the couple in advance.It is important to build.

With the spread of convenient and fun smartphones and game equipment, there is no source or child if the family's feelings fall apart, rather than enhancing family time.There is a risk of developing hearing loss, so it seems better to take action early.

(Yomiuri Shimbun Media Bureau Editorial Department Kayoko Nagahara)

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